Here is a personal StandUp For Kids story from Stephanie. We want to share these type of stories with you so you can see how StandUp For Kids changes lives and how our Fall/Holiday 2011 lines supports their efforts.
My name is Stephanie. I live in Sunnyvale CA. Thanks to StandUp For Kids, I am now healthy, have a job and a place to live. But it wasn’t like that when I first found StandUp For Kids in September 2009. My mother abandoned us when I was 3. My father raised my sister, brother, and me. He was physically and mentally abusive with me on a daily basis, and did not allow me to keep up with school; therefore, my grades were poor and I fell behind in school.
On my 17th birthday my dad had enough of me and kicked me out on my own. I started out sleeping in a park nearby for a few months and then had an opportunity to stay on a friend’s couch for a few months. I had no choice but to leave the high school I was in so I enrolled myself into independent studies at an alternative high school and realized I could finish school. I finished about a year’s worth of work in a matter of a month and a half and got my high school diploma. My friend had told me that this arrangement was very short term, as her family situation could not keep me very long.
In early September 2009, my childhood friend ran away from her unsafe home, and we rented a room together, both planning to get jobs and keep the room. They didn’t require any money down so we gave it a chance. We soon found that there was no way to get a job within the time frame. We tried to stay in the room for as long as we could knowing we would had nowhere else but back on the streets. Two weeks later the landlord gave us a 3-day eviction notice, since we couldn’t pay him any money.
My school counselor contacted the local chapter of StandUp For Kids and that night we all met at McDonald’s (my friend, my school counselor, two StandUp For Kids counselors in their designer purple t-shirts). We discussed our dilemma: no where to stay, no job, no safe family to go to and some medical problems I was facing. StandUp For Kids immediately got us a cashier’s check to pay for one week of rental so that we could put a plan in place. They provided us with food and shoes and more then I could ever ask.
I was turned down by jobs constantly, as I needed some major corrective surgery, but my insurance company refused to schedule the surgery (we thought they were waiting for my insurance to terminate on my 19th birthday). I was in a viscous cycle: no surgery, job, income or place to live. My StandUp For Kids counselor took the insurance company head-on and walked me through a legal escalation, resulting in the surgery being scheduled as well as follow-up medical services. I finally had a plan: get the surgery and then get a job.
StandUp For kids then agreed to provide a short term subsidy (to help with food and other costs) to the friend I had been staying with if she would let me stay with her until I was recovered from the surgery. She agreed. I had the surgery. Shortly after recovery, I got a job in retail. Prior to the surgery StandUp For Kids had taken me for an interview for a transitional housing program. I moved into the transitional housing as of June.
I am now really excited about my life. StandUp For kids helped me identify correspondence courses which I can take while I work. I don’t know where I would be today without the help from the many StandUp For Kids volunteers. They were always there for me, they helped me understand what choices I had and the pros/cons of each, they helped me put together a plan for myself, they cheered me on when I did well, they got in my face and helped me recover when I made bad decisions. Thank you StandUp For Kids!

To enable StandUp For Kids to help more people like Jonathan, please see our apparel. The proceeds from Jedidiah’s Fall/Holiday 2011 lines will be used to help fund a brand new StandUp For Kids homeless center in New York City.


















